Find a Spiritual Friend

  Have you ever wished you could sit down and talk with a mature Christian who would listen and pray for you? Are you willing to share what is on your mind and heart, knowing everything will be kept in confidence? If so, begin praying for God’s encourager to come into your life.  As a trained spiritual director (no, I don’t tell people what to do, just ask clarifying questions about where they are spiritually) as well as a supportive friend and companion, it’s a privilege to listen to women’s struggles and help them listen to God. Whether their issue is with relationships, self-image, confusion about God’s expectations, or other difficulties, I love helping women in their spiritual journey. I do this through sharing Scripture, pointing to Christ’s presence, and giving hope, which transforms these times into holy moments. What qualities should you watch for in someone you might approach?

•  A woman who not only loves the Lord, but also is actively seeking to grow herself.
• A woman who has faith and confidence that God is alive and wants to lead and bless you.
• A woman who keeps confidences and is supportive, as well as straight-forward when needed!

How do you find this person?

•  Look at women in your church–observe their involvement and attitudes. Are they God-centered? Would their personality and yours mesh?
• Ask your women’s pastor or leader for a mentor–be specific about what you are looking for.
• Ask women leaders you know if they could suggest someone for you to contact.

Be understanding if some women cannot add one more commitment to their lives at this time. Try not to take it personally! This process can take time, but persevere in praying for discernment and direction. Any questions, suggestions, or stories that would help others? Feel free to post a comment.Blessings,  Poppy SmithInternational speaker, multi-published author, Bible teacher, and spiritual coachInspiring Women to Thrive!   Permission to use this article is granted provided the following credit is fully included.Poppy Smith is funny, warm, and passionate about helping women grow spiritually and personally so they experience the love and power of Christ in life’s ups and downs. A former teaching leader with Bible Study Fellowship, Poppy has a Masters in Spiritual Formation and ministers extensively as a retreat and conference speaker both in the US and around the world. For more information about Poppy’s heart, her books and ministry, please visit her website at www.poppysmith.com.