FACING CROSSROADS: 12 KEYS TO MAKING GOOD CHOICES
Summer is a time many of us make choices about our next steps whether its schooling, career, family or personal direction. Biblical wisdom is something we all need so I encourage you to check out the following 12 Keys. You’ll find them a great help in making good choices. (You might also want to share it with someone who’s facing one of life’s many crossroads right now.)
Will this path lead me closer to the Lord?
Will this path increase my faith or undermine it, or draw me away from God?
Is seeking God at the core of what I want for my life?
Is this choice consistent with my claim to be a follower of Christ?
Begin your choice by keeping the end in view. Ask:
What kind of person do I want to be?
What do I want my legacy to be?
How do I want my life to turn out?
Ask a friend: Do you see this decision fitting with who I am and what God is doing in my life?
Is this choice consistent with what I know of the character and heart of God?
Will this choice continue what God is doing in my life?
As you visualize offering your decision to God or giving it as advice to someone else, do you feel peace or do you feel unrest?
Do you have joy or uneasiness as you make this decision?
Let me encourage you to reflect on Jeremiah 6:16: This is what the Lord says: “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.”Stand: In other words: Stop! Don’t race through decisions.Look: At both the short term and long term ramifications. Don’t make a choice just to get relief from it weighing you down. Wisdom requires looking at the short and long term consequences, not just for you but for others as well and for your witness. Think carefully, be quiet and listen to God.Crossroads: Are places where your decision could change the direction of your life and affect who you become. There are always consequences, or outcomes, positive or negative from our choices. Ask yourself: Will my choices cause me to dry up spiritually because I’ve drifted along or will I keep growing and becoming more like Christ and serving Him?If you discover you’re going the wrong way, you can always turn around and go back. You can also reach out to others who are drifting the wrong way to support and invite them back with the grace of God.Ask: Ask these 12 questions of yourself, and ask God. Use prayer and discernment as you consider these questions. Don’t be foolish and charge ahead, ignoring flashing red lights at the crossroads. Emotions are not indicators of God’s will. They make wonderful servants but terrible masters. God has given you a mind to think, weigh, and make decisions that will bless your life and others. (Proverbs 3:5-8)So, stand, look, and ask God. Then walk in obedience to His leading.
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